At a Halloween house party where I was one of two African American college students, I came to represent available, accessible sex. I was transformed from a sexual subject to object by the rap music and by the anonymous white guy who groped me. The rap music was so loud that I could not hear my soul yelling “No.” I felt hollow. I did nothing that night. I was consumed with rage. This is my mourning-after poem, my way of reconstructing and reclaiming that (body) part of me, far removed from the carefree energy I had felt earlier when shopping for my costume at a local costume store, unaware of what the night would bring.
I still feel the echo,
My voice cursing
This drunken 6 ft. something
White man walking out
Of the door
After taking his
Football hand
To grab my ass from my
Rectum upward.
I came to the Halloween party with a halter
Spandex denim catsuit
Pretending
To be Foxy funked
Out in an afro wig and retro threads,
A black ghost
When I had my guts gored
By football hands
Thinking I was his
Foxy brown black whore.
I saw two blonde-haired twins in their
Pseudo-lesbian stance standing in
For the prostitute. Red-lipped Marilyn
Twisted through the crowd with a bottle of bubbly,
Her breasts bubbling over, her white skin
Blending in
With her white halter dress. I ad-
Dressed my Maryland
No-listen-to-hip-hop roommate why
She tagged her white tank a “wifebeater” without question, I asked her
What it meant
That her closest friends
Coming in as “Heaven” and “Hell” were free to take
Center-stage tag-teaming
Jeanie, Austin Powers and whiteman as himself
In a striptease dance
Which we all consumed,
Looked, laughed and frowned
Because we thought we were somehow not them. I wasn’t
Drunk, like them,
I sipped root beer.
I wasn’t high, like them,
I got off
From humming hip-hop in the corner
Screaming
From two speakers
From a homemade CD
The horror hostess called a “party mix” that I was mixed up in
‘Cause somehow drunken ass football hands
Who felt me up from the asshole up
Thought I was his real-life blaxploitation ho
From them 70s shows done over in them rap videos.
I walked in the house
Party with goddamn Madonna
In her ultra-mini, black lace tights, peek-a-boo tank
Surrounded by her
Entire blonde ambition, erotica entourage touring
All around me, but
Drunken ass football hands stationed right on top of me,
Right as
One of the number one raps raped me
In the background, I became (her)
Tone-deaf hearing
Nothing
But the curse
Words I could have said
If my blackness were not drowned
Out by all the white noise,
By drunken ass football hands
Walking up-
Right
Out the door
Hi-fiving his fratboylike buddies bragging
He finally got the opportunity
To fondle the foxy brown black whore
From his virtual
Reality.
An earlier version of this autoethnographic poem is featured in the journal, Qualitative Inquiry.
thank you for sharing. Your poem is dope. I love how you put this: “If my blackness were not drowned/Out by all the white noise”.
Thanks! Each Halloween I am reminded of this moment and I revisit it to think about black female identity and representation.
This piece is as powerful as the first time when I heard it… the morning after. Thanks for sharing this timely poem as we approach this weekend when folks feel free to suspend their disguise… and show how they * really * feel. Paz hermana.
Loves the poem, keep up the good work!
Powerful visualization. I love how this unfolded. You are blessed with talent, thanks for posting this.
Thank you Michele, Jessica and Chela for taking the time to read it and reply. It is greatly appreciated and quite affirming.